Turning up the heat in Central Oregon


Welcome to Bend Swingers

You have been to all the major sites where “swingers” hangout. As you have realized it is hard to find people who are in the lifestyle in our area. It’s tough sorting through all the riff raff that those sites put you through in order to find someone who you think might match your wants and needs.

We cannot guarantee that you will find that person/couple here either. What you will find are people who ARE from this area or at least close by. Which makes your search that much easier.

We provide you with a rich selection of articles and information related to the swinger lifestyle. This will help you in your journey through this often times provocative lifestyle and through your quest to enrich your sex life with your partner. As society evolves it is becoming less of an under ground society. It is starting to become main stream, yet you still will not find people walking around wearing a T-Shirt that says ” I’m a Swinger”.

If you are new to the lifestyle, just exploring options to heighten your sex life, or have been in the lifestyle for quite sometime, you can find all the information you need to educate yourself and partner on what the swinger lifestyle is all about and how to participate in it, or not as the case may be.

So, take a look around and see what we have to offer.

We are building an Exclusive Social Network for swingers. Look for it REAL soon.

What is Swinging

Swinging or partner swapping (sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle or simply the lifestyle) is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship agree, as a couple, for both partners to engage in sexual activities with other people, sometimes referred to as recreational or social sex. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from a spontaneous sexual activity at an informal social gathering of friends to a swingers’ club and can involve internet-based introduction services.

The phenomenon of swinging (or at least its wider discussion and practice) is regarded by some as arising from the upsurge in sexual activity during the sexual revolution of the 1960s, made possible by the invention of the contraceptive pill and the prevalence of safer sex practices during the same period.

The term wife swapping is now criticized as being androcentric and not accurately describing the full range of sexual activities in which couples may take part, but the term continues in use, and reflects the origins of the concept whereby husbands were viewed as initiating an informal partner swap.

Swinging is social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liason, or with a third person in a threesome. Though single men and women are involved, it is primarily an activity of couples.