What you’ll find concerning the rules is that there’s nothing out of line with them. They’re not written as a method of taking advantage of anyone, they’re written so that newbies and oldies alike are aware of the etiquette required.
That being said……
“No means No” A very self explanatory rule and the most common rule at any club or party. If you can’t accept rejection you’re in the wrong lifestyle. Don’t ask twice.
“Don’t assume anything” Always ask. Making an assumption like “I bet it would be ok to pinch her nipples” is just asking for problems. It’s best to make sure you know where everyone stands BEFORE you do anything. The potential for embarrassment is enormous if you don’t.
“Don’t drink to excess” There are many things that can go wrong from drinking like a fish. Impaired judgment could lead to a ton of regret when you sober up. “Whiskey dick” isn’t going to make anyone happy either. Excessive drinking and rowdy behavior because of it, is plenty of reason to be removed from a party or put a damper on an evenings festivities. Know your limits.
“Don’t be Rowdy and Unruly” We’re all here to have fun. This is not a frat party, which is not to say we don’t get wild, but loud, obnoxious behavior, fighting and jumping on the furniture isn’t going to fly.
“Quarrels Between Partners” Need to be taken home. If you and your partner are having a dispute, don’t get loud, don’t call each other names, just go home and give yourselves time to calm down. Nothing will get resolved by arguing in a house full of people.
“The Dress Code” Streamlined and simple typicaly the dress code is: No ripped, stained, dirty clothing and no sweats. A lot of the ladies wear a cocktail dress, lingerie or nothing. Sexy is always good ladies. The guys who dress nicer are always appreciated by the ladies. You only get one chance to make a first impression.
